Keeping Pace with the Times

Keeping Pace with the Times - ToastmastersToastmasters is an old and respected global brand with a new promise to help you shine and to realize your dreams as a communicator.

You might think: “Who gives toasts these days?”

A friend mine recently got the call unexpectedly. He had no time to think. It was a retirement dinner and the man who was supposed to do the job, was sick so the boss asked my friend if he would say a few words and toast the woman who was retiring.

“No” was not an option. He got through it okay, but a bit of practice beforehand would have been good.

As Warren Buffet famously said, “Your speaking ability is either an asset or a liability… that lasts a lifetime.” How many opportunities are you missing because you are avoiding speaking in public, or not doing your best when you do get the opportunity?

The basics are still very much in demand. There are many occasions where adults are asked to say a few words. Do you hide, or can you stand up and impress?

Change is the biggest factor that shapes our lives. We all have to deal with it no matter what our stage of life. Most importantly, we all need to be able to tell our story. That means we all need to constantly update our story as our lives progress. So if someone says “ Tell us about yourself”, you shine with a compelling story, instead of stumbling through a dry laundry list of what you do.

Pathways projects are designed to align with your highest communication challenges.
They can help you to clarify who you are, shape your story, design your website offer, add a
short video of you telling your story, create a blog, or start a vlog. Doing any of these things alone without training is difficult. With support, you can be there quickly and easily. You’ll wonder why it took so long.

Keeping Pace with the Times - Bragging About Granddaughter
Maybe you just want to brag about your new granddaughter!

By the way, in case you are wondering, all of this applies if you are retired. You are creating a new purpose to be useful and make a difference. Toastmasters will keep you growing and keep you young!

Toastmasters has never been more relevant, or more able to help you reach your goals.  Be our guest any Wednesday at 7 am. Find out what you’re missing.

You’ll have fun. That’s a promise!

MorningStars meets every Wednesday at Harmony Hall, Harmony Lane, Gibsons. CLICK HERE for map and details.

Written by
Michael Worsfold, VP Education,
MorningStars Toastmasters, Gibsons, B.C.

A Morningstar Celebrates 50 Years of Toastmasters

“I stood back, guided and filled in the gaps.”

Distinguished Toastmaster Frank Coldicott recently returned from a visit with his daughter in Australia. While he was there, father and daughter, both wood crafters, designed and constructed homemade Adroinnock chairs.  While Frank’s daughter is still exploring her abilities, Frank said he was most content to stand back, guide and fill the gaps in her training.

It is a similiar role he has filled for the Morningstars Toastmasters club on the Sunshine Coast in Gibsons, British Columbia and many clubs across British Columbia, Canada.

Frank Coldicott is celebrating his 50th year as a member of Toastmasters. Frank has experienced half a century of speeches, Table Topics, contests, and meetings. He has fifty years of chartering clubs, mentoring new ones and taking on executive roles.

When I was asked to interview Frank for a possible 50th-anniversary blog, I jumped at the chance to meet with the man I consider a friend and mentor.

50 Years of Toastmasters

Frank Coldicott - Celebrating 50 Years of ToastmastersColdicott’s journey started in 1967 when he was invited to join the Vernon Toastmasters Club. According to Frank, he joined to increase his social interactions. He was a new teacher in his hometown and living at home. If his car appeared at a person’s house or at a pub, his students knew about it. However, no one said anything when he was parked in front of a building on Toastmasters meeting night.

“Some people say that being a teacher made me a better Toastmaster. But the opposite is true. Toastmasters impacted my quality of teaching,” my friend and mentor confessed. “The pauses and vocal variety helped me to connect with students and teach them more creatively.”

The next club Coldicott joined was the Kamloops Toastmasters Club in the early 1970s. It was here that Frank witnessed one of the biggest changes within Toastmasters – the point in which the public speaking club became coed thanks to the woman’s liberation movement.

“Oh sure, our club encountered a bit of resistance. Some men felt that the club would lose the professional aspects or that ‘nothing was sacred,’” Frank explained.  “After the initial shake-up, the dust settled into a really great club.”

In the 1980s, Frank helped charter and attempted to start a few new clubs in the area. Some gained ground while others floundered.

After he formally retired from teaching, Frank was approached to be the key note speaker for the graduation ceremony of one of the classes he taught. According to Frank, he spent long hours refining and practicing the speech.

“While I was delivering the speech I crafted, the boys I taught were talking. I tried everything in my Toastmasters delivery bag to capture their attention. I put in pauses, vocal variety and gestures. I could not connect with them.

“It wasn’t until much later, after several days of ruminating, that I understood the issue. I gave an adult speech. That one event taught me the importance of knowing and understanding your audience.”

Frank eventually settled in Richmond where he joined ASK  Advanced Speakers Toastmasters Club of Greater Vancouver, where he became the Area Governor.

In the early 2000s, Frank and his wife Julie moved to the Sunshine Coast where he joined Morningstars Toastmasters Club and later helped mentor the newly formed Beachcombers Advanced Toastmasters Club.

Frank Coldicott Celebrates 50 Years with ToastmastersSpeeches and Painting More Similiar Than Many Think

“I’m better at Table Topics than written speeches,” Frank offered. “I’m way better when it comes from my emotional center rather than the rational thought. It’s how I paint.”

What some people don’t know about Frank is that he is an abstract painter – who is colour blind. He can read the colour of the tube of paint, but how it plays or blends with others is difficult. If he puts too much thought into it, it becomes overwhelming.

Franks says he paints in a flurry before he can start over analyzing or shifting into rational. He believes the end result feels better and looks better when it comes from his heart.

On Pathways

He mentioned that he has seen the curriculum for Toastmasters change significantly at least four times over the years.

“When I started out, there were two books. One was a basic training book, much like the Competent Communicator. It outlined the bare basics of the ten steps of speeches. There was one advanced book.”

He’s looking forward to the new Pathways and how it may open up the lines of communication via the digital world. Frank open admits that social media and blogs aren’t his strong points, but it is something he would like to learn.  Always the student. Always the teacher.

Favourite Roles in Toastmasters

When questioned about his favourite role in Toastmasters, the humble man emerges. Frank talks about the days when he used to enjoy the center of the stage, taking on roles like chairing Toastmaster meetings or being the Master of Ceremonies for local events.

“The greatest joy for me, anymore, is watching others as they grow,” Frank said. He reminded me of a parent on Christmas Day who once enjoyed opening gifts and is now happy to give them to the next generation.

Franks says that he enjoys listening to others, watching them grow and offering his advice through evaluations.

Or standing back, guiding and filling the gaps.

On Mentoring

I asked Frank if he mentors Toastmasters and he replied, “Oh, maybe one or two over the years.”

Like many Toastmasters, I think there’s a chance he doesn’t see how many lives he impacts. He may not realize how his evaluations and keen observations help layer the growth in skill and confidence of all the Toastmasters in his club.

Frank Coldicott is an asset to the Toastmasters community and especially to Morningstars Toastmasters Club 1248 where he continues to help fellow members shine.

Happy 50th Anniversary, Frank!

And thank you!

Submitted by Weegee S.

 

 

 

 

 

Back to Toastmasters – Join Us for Our First Meeting

Start of Toastmaster Season

Labour Day weekend is the last hurrah for many as students prepare to head back to school.

For Morningstars, it is the beginning of many hurrahs as the 2017-2018 Toastmasters season kicks off!

The upcoming year looks to be an exciting one — fall contests, a 80s Halloween theme party and powerful speeches from our talented members.

Morningstars is an hour and fifteen minute investment into one’s personal development. From elevator pitches to small talk, the energetic club can take your personal goals to the next level.

Join us for our first meeting of the new year on September 6, 2017 at 7am at Harmony Hall in Gibsons.

You won’t regret it.

Don’t want to let go of summer quite yet? Here are a few snapshots from the summer meetings:

Submitted by Weegee S.